Last Friday the cover of People Magazine showed Clay Aiken holding his infant son, Parker Foster Aiken. The headline read, “Yes, I’m Gay.” Clay has finally come out of the closet after so many questions about his sexual orientation. Aiken fathered the child using in-vitro fertilization with Jaymes Foster, a friend and producer. In the article, the 29 year old former “runner up” on the 2003 American Idol contest said, “It was the first decision I made as a father,” referring to his going public with the shocking news. “I cannot raise a child to lie or to hide things. I wasn’t raised that way and I’m not going to raise a child to do that.”
What makes Aiken’s disclosure so troubling to the community of faith is that he claims to be a born-again Christian. He acknowledges in the People article that his Claymates, as they are known, may not be happy that he has chosen to father a baby and bring it into the world without the benefit of a traditional family.
The Scripture makes it clear that the love and grace of Christ extends to all people. There is no doubt that the power of the gospel can extend to all who are Homosexual. There are times when believers need to be reminded that where sin abounds, grace much more abounds. (Rom. 5:20)
But with that being said, it becomes necessary to teach our sons and daughters, and the church at large, that God Almighty has given us His boundaries for our sexuality. Don’t forget, God Himself is the one who created us as sexual beings. He knows what is best because He is the creator. This philosophy that says, “You live the way you want to live and I’ll live the way I want to live,” won’t work. Everyone comes at life with some foundational worldview. The believer chooses to obey the Scripture because he or she embraces the truth that the God of the Bible is the one true God. When that issue is settled, the scripture becomes your blueprint for life.
This issue is of importance for me as a Pastor as we approach the election. On the ballot for all Floridians is Amendment 2 which attempts to define marriage as “the union of a man and a woman as husband and wife in the Florida Constitution.” I wholeheartedly encourage every voter to support Amendment 2 and vote yes for it on Election Day. As is stated in materials from the website, www.Yes2Marriage.org “a yes vote on Amendment 2 lets the people of Florida decide how marriage is defined in our state. It will prevent homosexual groups and activists judges from redefining marriage as they have in Massachusetts and California.”
I believe that Amendment 2 will be good for our state. It defines marriage from a Biblical perspective and in my opinion this helps us all, believers and unbelievers alike.
I would welcome your comments. For more information on Amendment 2 see www.Yes2Marriage.org.